Bi-Sexual

Pang1971

Everytime, when I see this group, I am asking myself how long I have to keep myself as a secret.  I am married and have three beautiful kids.  However, from the bottom from my heart, I know I have been a bisexual for past 20 years.   It is very hard if you cannot face yourself and admit your sex orientation.  It is hard when you realize your life is bound with childerns.  It is hard you try to be balance around the boundary.  What a life!

lgxcwc

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"It is very hard if you cannot face yourself and admit your sex orientation.  
It is hard when you realize your life is bound with children.  
It is hard you try to be balance around the boundary".
I totally agree!
The second sentence is particularly to the point.

Pang1971

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So, tell me about yourself.  Can you turely face yourself and your family?  Can you be out off the closet without pain and pressure? I cannot.  Maybe I am not brave enough.  Maybe I am a coward.  At least, I try not to hurt anyone else. Anyway, thanks for your command.  It is good to know you. Cheers.  I like to drink, too.

redstubasa

Different than your situation, I'm a young bisexual.

But I strongly suspise that my parents both have this intensity because when I told them the truth, they accept it whithin a second.

So I think that maybe this is not such a big deal, maybe I don't have the right to say so, according to my non- experienced, but my familily just live like normal families. My parents are lovely couples like others, and they don't seems like having big deal with it.

P.S, my dad frowned when I asked him if any boy had ever got crushed in him, but my mother tells me stories when I asked her....